I have a serious question.
I am in love and right now my husband is in India due to family illness.
Obviously its so much easier if your wife had left you and time had passed before getting pregnant.
She may say he left her lonely and that's why she did it, but if he is in the military, leave comes with the territory.
Is your wife in any state of mind to bring a child into the world? For the last many years that I have wanted to make this happen,I have not been able to find a suitable partner in this.
If after serving in the military my wife gives birth to a kid that obviously isn't mine, the likelihood of my staying is slim to nil.